I do not claim to understand the techniques of the “great men of prayer,” as they have been called, or even to know for sure what was meant by that “awe-filled” designation. What I am rather certain about is this: as we do with such efficient alacrity in matters of faith, we have turned the tables, snarled the guidelines, and switched the priorities. We’ve promoted “prayer” as a self-serving jiffy gadget for twisting God’s arm, a soul-sided Aladdin’s lamp – or, equally blasphemous, as a stern Christian duty that may not be much fun but is somewhere piling up Brownie points to our account.
What a joyless faith that regards prayer as a life sentence, the onerous pride of admission to the club! And what a faithless faith that thinks of prayer as negotiable special privilege (“I thank Thee, that I am not as other men are”).
There are some other things that prayer is not:
Prayer is not a way to lobby the halls of heaven.
Prayer is not a let-God-do-it means of evading responsibilities which are rightfully our own.
Prayer is not a means by which we can persuade God to do what He does not very much want to do.
Prayer is not even a means by which God can be urged to do what is His nature to do.
Prayer is not a lever which we may use to bend God’s will to our will.
Prayer is not a bulletin by which we must inform God of current news, and without which He is uninformed. (There was a seminary professor who opened his class with prayer, invariably prefaced by, “O God, as Thou didst see in the New York Times this morning …”)
We have profaned prayer, I think, by trying to organize it, program it, formalize it, and ritualize it. We try to get whole churches or cities or nations praying at the same time and preferably for the same thing, as if we were setting up a picket line to bring our grievances to God’s attention or waging a cosmic protest …
Is God any more likely to be impressed with wholesale prayer than retail, or with round-the-clock prayer marathons than with unpremeditated moments when His presence evokes an impulsive, “Thank you”? …
When we give the impression that God may be suitably addressed only in a certain kind of language, we are, I think, guilty of introducing a crippling degree of self-consciousness into our praying. Inability to pray certainly doesn’t stem from having nothing to say. Often it does stem from thinking you have to say it in what amounts to a foreign tongue. Traditional prayer-talk is unlike anything else that one will encounter outside the King James Version of the Bible and perhaps an old hymnbook. While we have been always exhorted to translate our faith into everyday concerns and deeds, and when the Bible has been translated into numerous modern versions, we have not yet been adequately encouraged to translate our prayers …
Prayer is and ought to be the most natural thing in the world … The reassurance that one word is no holier than another may provide liberation that will make prayer not only meaningful but indispensable. We don’t have to force ourselves into somebody else’s mold. If we could just grasp that one idea!
Kenneth L. Wilson (1916-?)
Editor of The Christian Herald
Have Faith Without Fear (1970), pages 53-58